After two years of highlighting her own romantic (mis)adventures for The Sunday Paper, a weekly newspaper in Atlanta, columnist and seasoned dater Blane Bachelor is now helping you with yours.

Suspect your boyfriend is cheating on you – with your brother-in-law? Sick of being burned by bad boys, but no idea how to relate to a guy who says he’ll call and – gasp! – actually does? Caught the old ball and chain balling someone else? Let Blane come to your rescue. She delivers on-the-mark advice with honesty, humor and just the right amount of snark. Send in your drama or trauma via the adjacent form, or via e-mail to askabachelor@sundaypaper.com.

A few things to keep in mind:

• While it takes a lot to make Blane blush, this is a dating and relating column. She'll answer questions about sex as they pertain to relationships, but save the explicit stuff for the XXX chat rooms, ok?
• Your letters may be edited for length or clarity (but not so much that they prevent readers from discerning what an idiot you are, if that’s the case).
• Blane will keep your identity under wraps (though she can’t promise she won’t rip on you if it's warranted) and your e-mail address will not be sold to Third-World spammers promising appendage enlargement through magic pills.
• While your anonymity is guaranteed, your letters may also be used as fodder for blog discussions, articles and dinner-party conversation.
• If you don’t sign off with a catchy nickname, Blane will make one up for you. You've been warned.